
Next someone from board A is spying on board B, spots some bitching that some posters did a while back when they were bitter about the board split, and posts it on board A. I rejoin, try to square the situation between the two warring factions (without any mod powers) cop a lot of flak, but eventually manage to sort it out. Board A becomes lively again.
now person B is trying to oust me at board B, by basically being really nasty to me. and it's worked- I no longer want to post there. I get the feeling she wants to be 'Miss Popular' of the board- and I am the one thing that stands in her way from being popular poster number 1.
I really don't think a lot of some people lately.
as a 36 year old man, it's kinda galling havin a 17 year old girl telling me how I should conduct myself on a public forum. (A)
In the meantime, I discover that the main admin of site B has been rude to several posters in private conversations- upsetting some people I think highly of. I also discover she has lied to me on several occasions.
I don't know what to do about it (B). I feel I can't leave without something being said- and if I post what I feel, I think the board will tear itself apart with recriminations- it will implode. (Or, it will just carry on as before, without me.)

I dunno. It's hard to know what to say. Or rather, I want to keep it as straight as possible, ie 'I really don't like you anymore. I'm disappointed.' rather than, 'You're such a biyatch!'

What will be said will be said, and what happens from that is what happens, I guess. I might post a first draft here, to see what people think.
or not, cos it's probably really boring. I don't know if it's relevant, but both forums are populated by around 95% women- (A)- is the fansite of a popular and sexually attractive English comedian. (B) is the fansite of two popular and sexually attractive English comedians.